Understanding Spousal and Survivor Benefits: What You Might Be Missing

Understanding Spousal and Survivor Benefits: What You Might Be Missing

August 28, 2025

When most people think about Social Security, they think of their own retirement benefit. But if you're married, divorced, or widowed, there's more to the picture—and leaving benefits on the table could mean missing out on thousands of dollars over a lifetime.

Let’s break down what spousal and survivor benefits are, who qualifies, and what you might be overlooking.

Spousal Benefits: More Than Just a Backup

Spousal benefits allow you to receive up to 50% of your spouse’s full retirement benefit, even if you’ve never worked or earned enough credits on your own.

Here’s what to know:

  • You must be at least age 62 and your spouse must have filed for their own benefit.

  • If your own retirement benefit is less than half of your spouse’s, Social Security will “top off” your amount.

  • You won’t get both benefits in full—you’ll receive your own first, and then the spousal top-up to make up the difference.

  • If you take spousal benefits before your full retirement age, the amount is reduced.

This can be a significant help for households where one spouse spent more time caregiving, managing the home, or working part-time.

Divorced? You Might Still Qualify

If you’re divorced but were married for at least 10 years, and you haven’t remarried, you may still be eligible for spousal benefits based on your ex-spouse’s record. The best part? They don’t even need to know you’re claiming.

This benefit doesn't impact their Social Security, and it can provide extra support, especially if your own work history doesn’t result in a large benefit.

Survivor Benefits: Support After Loss

If your spouse or ex-spouse has passed away, you may be eligible for survivor benefits, which are often up to 100% of their benefit.

Key points to consider:

  • You can claim survivor benefits as early as age 60 (or age 50 if disabled), but doing so before full retirement age will reduce the amount.

  • Remarrying before age 60 can affect eligibility—but remarrying after 60 typically does not.

  • If you qualify for both your own benefit and a survivor benefit, you’ll receive the higher of the two, not both.

Timing matters greatly with survivor benefits. In some cases, it makes sense to claim one benefit early and switch to the other later—depending on which amount is higher over time.

What You Might Be Missing

Many people overlook these benefits or assume they don’t qualify. Others claim too early, locking in a reduced amount for life. A coordinated claiming strategy—especially as a couple or surviving spouse—can significantly increase your lifetime benefit.

At Flagship Financial Advisors, we believe in authentic planning in an inauthentic world. That means helping you understand not just the basics, but the hidden opportunities in your financial picture—including Social Security.

Let’s Talk About Your Strategy

If you're unsure whether you're eligible for spousal or survivor benefits, or you want to be sure you're claiming the right way, we’re here to help. Let’s sit down and look at your options—so you don’t leave valuable benefits behind.